Grief
A Time to Mourn … and A Time to Rejoice …
Does your heart ever get confused as to what it’s supposed to feel? Like, are you ever in the middle of a joyous moment and out the clear blue an instant of pure, intense sadness cuts through you like a knife taking your breath away?
This is where I am – outwardly content and well-adjusted and then striking me in sporadic moments I am entertaining grief at the passing of my sister a year ago.
You can read more of my journey through grief at Road to Abundance.
Grief comes to us not just when someone dies, but at a time of illness, times of broken dreams, and also, but not limited to, times of financial loss. Never, ever make the mistake of believing you have to ‘go it alone’ – there are those who have gone through this and in sharing their experiences, they give us a lifeline of hope. Hang on … if you’re entertaining grief as a companion on your own journey … here are some good reads to help you cope.
Many times we are grieving the illness of someone dear – and know we are in for a long road. Here is an excellent resource. Care Pages is something you can use through the journey.
There are any number of Grief Forums online – Click here to see one of the best. Forums are a relaxed, informal way to share feelings, emotions, and information. They can be very valuable and are an excellent way to surround yourself with others who are on the Road To Healing.
| A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows Through Loss, Expanded Edition
By Jerry Sittser Loss in life is inevitable, but it’s possible to harness the hardship of loss and turn it into a positive event in your life. Author Jerry Sittser explores painful events like divorce, death and illness and shows that it’s not the circumstances we find ourselves in at these points of loss, but how we respond to them that widens our spiritual capacity to experience blessing and growth in the midst of grief. |
| Everyday Comfort: Meditations for Seasons of Grief, updated edition
By Randy Becton People who are mourning the loss of a dear friend or beloved family member often feel alone. And those who want to comfort them can feel inadequate and at a loss for words. In Everyday Comfort, grievers will find thirty daily devotions to help them through their heartache. Respecting the griever’s anguish and emotional turmoil, these devotions avoid platitudes and offer genuine empathy and wisdom. Subjects like recovery, facing death, normal grief and abnormal grief, and using the psalms daily will help those who grieve examine the path through despair and take the next steps toward living life again. |
| Everyday Strength, Second Edition
By Randy Becton * As a cancer survivor, Becton knows firsthand the disease’s attack on the human soul. Patients and caregivers will find these 33 meditations on topics such as depression, anger, fear, and loneliness an encouraging guide toward spiritual and mental wellness in the face of physical illness. Filled with prayers, Scriptures, and uplifting thoughts for each day. 160 pages, softcover from Baker. |
| When Hope Is Tried: Meditations for Those Who Are Ill and the People Who Love Them
By Carol Winters Carol winters has lived with cancer for six years. In this frank and personal memoir, she provides insight and comfort to the seriously ill and their loved ones. |
| Grieving the Child I Never Knew: A Devotional Companion for Comfort in the Loss of Your Unborn or Newly Born
By Kathe Wunnenberg Grieving the Child I Never Knew offers comfort and the reassurance of God’s presence as you grieve the loss of a child you never got to know. If you’ve lost a child through miscarriage, tubal pregancy, stillbirth, or early infant death, this devotional will encourage you along your healing journey. Each chapter includes a journaling exercise. Hardcover. |
| I’ll Hold You in Heaven Remembrance Book
By Debbie Heydrick While there are many books that address the issue of grieving the loss of a child, this book stands alone by inviting the parents to express their emotions in an interactive way with what they are reading. This book will not only honor and validate the very real loss of a baby lost through miscarriage, stillbirth or early infant death, but it will also provide parents a way to get through the loss with help from Scripture, encouraging quotes, soothing art work, space for journaling, and a very gentle tone that says, “Your baby and your loss are very significant.” The keepsake book provides a place to write one’s personal story of loss and “love letters” to the child, and includes a list of loss support resources and practical ideas for treasuring memories of the child. |
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